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THE DIVORCE
ALLIES
What story have you been holding onto? What narrative has someone else told you that has defined your sense of self? You have the power to re-write that - today.
COMMUNITY CENTERED. SOLUTION BASED. EXPERT KNOWLEDGE.
Our Membership
We believe that with the right resources and support, any couple can successfully navigate divorce, no matter how complex the situation. Through our membership, we offer real-time guidance and mentorship, empowering our clients to make informed decisions that positively shape their divorce outcomes. For just $222/month, our members receive hours of live interaction with experts—costing less than a single hour with one of them.
Weekly live sessions. Group discussions and specialized workshops.
Pre-recorded video modules for you to watch at your convenience.
Downloadable guidebooks to support you throughout your divorce process.
Book a Consult or 1-on-1 Appointment - Directly With One of Our Divorce Allies
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Melissa Gragg
FINANCIAL MEDIATOR & BUSINESS VALUATION EXPERT
Melissa Gragg, a seasoned divorce mediator and business valuation expert, specializes in the psychology of negotiation, employing mediation as an alternative dispute resolution method before resorting to court testimony. With 20+ years of experience as an expert witness, Melissa collaborates with attorneys, mediators, and couples nationwide, offering neutral, third-party services for business valuation, pension valuation, income analysis, and complex financial matters. -
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Emile Flowers, CDLP®
DIVORCE MORTGAGE SPECIALIST
As a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®), Emile understands that everyone's financial situation is unique and deserves personalized attention. With her knowledge and expertise, she helps clients make the right choices for themselves and their families. Additionally, during the divorce process, Emile offers specialized guidance to ensure that her clients can navigate the complexities of mortgage considerations and financial restructuring with confidence and clarity.
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Cristin Terri
PARENTING SPECIALIST
Cristin, a Certified Divorce Coach and counselor, specializes in providing expert guidance and support during challenging times, with a particular focus on the well-being of children. Serving as a parent coordinator, coach, and counselor, she assists parents in navigating both personal parenting journeys and joint co-parenting relationships, drawing from her own successful navigation of divorce and personal experiences growing up in a divorced family. -
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Anna Graham
ENTREPRENEUR MENTOR
Within The Divorce Allies, I assist our clients in discovering and honing their unique voice, particularly during times of significant change. My goal is to help individuals navigate these transitions smoothly and effectively, leveraging strategic insights and personalized support to foster growth and success. Every business started as an idea. With the right support and knowledge, it became what it is today.
Our areas of expertise:
High-Conflict Behavior:
Strategies to navigate and manage interactions with high-conflict or narcissistic spouses, ensuring your peace and clarity.
Financial Assistance:
Guidance on understanding finances, from asset division to budgeting, and ensuring financial stability post-divorce.
Housing & Mortgage:
Support in evaluating housing options, navigating refinancing, or making informed decisions about staying or selling.
Parenting/Co-Parenting:
Practical tools and strategies to create a strong parenting plan, maintain stability for your children, and communicate effectively with your co-parent.
Post-Divorce Transitioning:
Assistance in rebuilding your life after divorce—whether that’s starting a new career, creating a side hustle, or finding your sense of independence and peace.
Emotional Healing and Support:
Holistic coaching and practical exercises to help you process emotions, release stress, and embrace a healthier mindset during and after your divorce.
"I wish I knew The Divorce Allies existed when I got divorced."
Real Support. Real Solutions.
Divorce doesn’t have to be confusing, isolating, or outrageously expensive. Our exclusive membership gives you access to weekly live sessions, expert guidance, and a growing library of practical tools to help you move through your divorce with clarity and confidence.
Inside our confidential community, we support you mentally, emotionally, and financially—so you can create your settlement offer, avoid costly surprises, and start your next chapter feeling empowered.
You're not alone. We're here to help you finish this process strong—and thrive on the other side.
The Divorce Vault - DIY Divorce NOW
Divorce doesn’t have to be a war. But when you are up against a system built to exploit confusion, delay discovery and manipulate the numbers - you better come prepared. The Divorce Vault is your secret weapon.
We have combined our guidebook “Power Moves in Divorce” with 24 episodes of the LIVE Circle Sessions and so much more. Get started today with everything you need to negotiate your divorce to settlement.
Divorce Feels Heavy - But You’re Stronger Than You Think
Divorce carries a weight that most people don’t understand until they’re in it. The decisions, the endless documents, the looming deadlines -it all piles up until it feels crushing. Add in the emotions, the uncertainty, maybe even the chaos of a toxic spouse, and it’s no wonder so many women feel powerless.
But here’s the truth: you are not powerless. You have more influence in this process than you’ve been told.
That’s why we created The Divorce Vault—a collection of strategies, guides, and expert tools designed to help you turn confusion into strategy and pain into power. Inside, you’ll find exactly how to take back control, step by step, without getting lost in the legal maze.
And the very first step? Writing your Position Statement.
This is not just paperwork. It’s the foundation of your entire negotiation. It organizes your facts, shines a light on your top issues, and becomes the anchor for your settlement offer.
Six Months. Unfiltered Truth. Tactical Preparation.
This isn’t a support group. It’s your strategy room.
The Divorce Vault is a six-month collection of live circle sessions, expert insights, and tactical training designed for women in the thick of divorce - especially when things get messy, uncooperative, or downright chaotic.
Inside the Divorce Vault, you’ll learn:
💣 How to Anchor the Deal - make the first offer with confidence and strategy before mediation even begins.
🔍 How to Spot Financial Manipulation - and what to do about hidden money, stonewalling, and weaponized confusion.
🔄 What to Do When Your Team Isn’t Helping - including how to work around attorneys or mediators who don’t have your back.
🤖 How to Use ChatGPT to Build Your Case - draft your position statement, timeline, exhibits, and top issues with the help of AI.
♟ How to Identify Patterns of Chaos - and pivot with clarity instead of panic.
These are not dramatized stories or vague advice. These are battle-tested tactics pulled straight from real negotiations, mediation prep sessions, and financial strategy meetings.
If you’re ready to stop playing defense and start negotiating from power, The Divorce Vault is your next move.
Become a “Circle” member today. Take control.
Get everything inside The Divorce Allies Membership plus exclusive access: full Divorce Vault library, all workshops and circles, and a 60-minute private session each month with the Ally of your choice. Personalized support + premium recognition in our community. Join The Divorce Allies Movement - and "Pay What You Can" (Enter the code PAY10 or PAY25 or PAY50 or PAY100 for discount through 2025) Discounted membership does not include the 60-min private session - but all other benefits remain
DOWNLOAD OUR FREE GUIDE
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Plus, get $100 off your first month of membership.
Start today: Organize your finances, build your settlement offer, and negotiate with confidence.
HOW CAN WE GUIDE YOU?
Buy Today - Anchor the Settlement Offer
Buy Today - Anchor the Settlement Offer
Download the Anchor the Deal guide if:
You’re ready to stop reacting and start leading
You want to settle smart, not spend endlessly
You don’t have every document—but you do have the courage to begin
Take the first step. Make the first offer. Anchor the deal.
⚓ Anchor the Deal™
Make the First Move. Set the Tone. Get the Settlement You Deserve.
Anchor the Deal is your ultimate strategy guide for creating a fair and powerful divorce settlement offer—before your ex (or their attorney) defines the narrative for you.
This isn't about aggression—it's about structure, logic, and timing. Inside, you'll learn how to craft your offer using facts, documents, and a simple spreadsheet… even if you're still missing some information or dealing with a high-conflict spouse.
You’ll discover:
🧠 Why making the first offer gives you leverage
🗂️ What to include in a complete financial disclosure
📊 How to structure a 50/50-based offer (and when to adjust it)
🚩 What traps to avoid, like marital waste or separate property claims
💬 Scripts and worksheets to present your offer clearly and confidently
This guide introduces you to the Sedlment™ Method—a proven, empowering way to create momentum, resolve disputes, and keep control over your process, your future, and your peace of mind.