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Real Support. Real Solutions.

Divorce doesn’t have to be confusing, isolating, or outrageously expensive. Our exclusive membership gives you access to weekly live sessions, expert guidance, and a growing library of practical tools to help you move through your divorce with clarity and confidence.

Inside our confidential community, we support you mentally, emotionally, and financially—so you can create your settlement offer, avoid costly surprises, and start your next chapter feeling empowered.

You're not alone. We're here to help you finish this process strong—and thrive on the other side.

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We believe that with the right resources and support, any couple can successfully navigate divorce, no matter how complex the situation. Through our membership, we offer real-time guidance and mentorship, empowering our clients to make informed decisions that positively shape their divorce outcomes. For just $222/month, our members receive hours of live interaction with experts—costing less than a single hour with one of them.

Weekly live sessions. Group discussions and specialized workshops.

Pre-recorded video modules for you to watch at your convenience.

Downloadable guidebooks to support you throughout your divorce process.

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Our areas of expertise:

High-Conflict Behavior:

Strategies to navigate and manage interactions with high-conflict or narcissistic spouses, ensuring your peace and clarity.

Financial Assistance:

Guidance on understanding finances, from asset division to budgeting, and ensuring financial stability post-divorce.

Housing & Mortgage:

Support in evaluating housing options, navigating refinancing, or making informed decisions about staying or selling.

Parenting/Co-Parenting:

Practical tools and strategies to create a strong parenting plan, maintain stability for your children, and communicate effectively with your co-parent.

Post-Divorce Transitioning:

Assistance in rebuilding your life after divorce—whether that’s starting a new career, creating a side hustle, or finding your sense of independence and peace.

Emotional Healing and Support:

Holistic coaching and practical exercises to help you process emotions, release stress, and embrace a healthier mindset during and after your divorce.

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Buy Today - Anchor the Settlement Offer

Download the Anchor the Deal guide if:

You’re ready to stop reacting and start leading
You want to settle smart, not spend endlessly
You don’t have every document—but you do have the courage to begin

Take the first step. Make the first offer. Anchor the deal.

⚓ Anchor the Deal™

Make the First Move. Set the Tone. Get the Settlement You Deserve.

Anchor the Deal is your ultimate strategy guide for creating a fair and powerful divorce settlement offer—before your ex (or their attorney) defines the narrative for you.

This isn't about aggression—it's about structure, logic, and timing. Inside, you'll learn how to craft your offer using facts, documents, and a simple spreadsheet… even if you're still missing some information or dealing with a high-conflict spouse.

You’ll discover:

🧠 Why making the first offer gives you leverage
🗂️ What to include in a complete financial disclosure
📊 How to structure a 50/50-based offer (and when to adjust it)
🚩 What traps to avoid, like marital waste or separate property claims
💬 Scripts and worksheets to present your offer clearly and confidently

This guide introduces you to the Sedlment™ Method—a proven, empowering way to create momentum, resolve disputes, and keep control over your process, your future, and your peace of mind.

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The Divorce Allies Membership

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As a member, you gain access to weekly coaching sessions, expert insights and knowledge, plus a wide-range of resources. This rate is only valid through the end of the year, but will be locked in for as long as you are a member. There is no commitment; you can cancel at any time.

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Melissa Gragg

FINANCIAL MEDIATOR & BUSINESS VALUATION EXPERT
Melissa Gragg, a seasoned divorce mediator and business valuation expert, specializes in the psychology of negotiation, employing mediation as an alternative dispute resolution method before resorting to court testimony. With 20+ years of experience as an expert witness, Melissa collaborates with attorneys, mediators, and couples nationwide, offering neutral, third-party services for business valuation, pension valuation, income analysis, and complex financial matters.

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Victoria McCooey

HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE COACH
As a High Conflict Divorce Coach, Certified Divorce Mediator, and the creator of the Reclaim Your Power System™, Victoria specializes in aiding clients through the challenges posed by an abusive spouse or narcissistic toxic partner. Her approach involves empowering clients to transcend pain and fear, breaking free from a victim mentality and embracing newfound possibilities. Utilizing her proprietary system, individuals can reclaim their power, enabling them to make impactful decisions from a position of strength rather than fear.

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Emile Flowers, CDLP®

DIVORCE MORTGAGE SPECIALIST
As a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®), Emile understands that everyone's financial situation is unique and deserves personalized attention. With her knowledge and expertise, she helps clients make the right choices for themselves and their families. Additionally, during the divorce process, Emile offers specialized guidance to ensure that her clients can navigate the complexities of mortgage considerations and financial restructuring with confidence and clarity.

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Cristin Terri

PARENTING SPECIALIST
Cristin, a Certified Divorce Coach and counselor, specializes in providing expert guidance and support during challenging times, with a particular focus on the well-being of children. Serving as a parent coordinator, coach, and counselor, she assists parents in navigating both personal parenting journeys and joint co-parenting relationships, drawing from her own successful navigation of divorce and personal experiences growing up in a divorced family.

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Anna Graham

ENTREPRENEUR MENTOR
Within The Divorce Allies, I assist our clients in discovering and honing their unique voice, particularly during times of significant change. My goal is to help individuals navigate these transitions smoothly and effectively, leveraging strategic insights and personalized support to foster growth and success. Every business started as an idea. With the right support and knowledge, it became what it is today.

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